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Porn Stars Do Not Make Good Role Models

There is an audible groan from two the first of many talks that I will have
mothers pushing their little children in with my daughter about dignity,
strollers through the mall, as they are self-respect and real power."
passed by a scantily clad group of Acts like this simple one the above
teenage girls. "What parent would let her mother displayed, exemplify the kind of
daughter leave the house like that?" she guidance that parents must give to their
says referring to the group of girls in children starting when the children are
matching short shorts and tight, midriff very young. As the many media outlets
baring shirts. bombard kids with inappropriate sexual
Girls dressing in "Ho" costumes on content it is important that parents
Halloween, little girl t-shirts with stand strong, be positive role models and
sexual innuendo emblazoned across the enforce the standards of conduct and
chests, reality television that shows dress that they know is correct.
little girls expertly utilizing a Another simple act parents can take is to
stripper pole, musical lyrics that are stop giving hard earned money over to
sexually explicit and degrading to women, stores that sell sexually explicit
the demise of dating and the rise of material and clothing targeted to
"hooking up" are all appalling topics to children. On page 244, of her insightful
parents of underage children. book Prude, Carol Platt Liebau notes,
Books like Prude: How the Sex-Obsessed "Every time anyone makes it clear that
Culture Damages Girls (and America, Too!) over-the-top sexual dialogue or images
and Female Chauvinist Pigs: Women and the aren't acceptable for public consumption,
Rise of Raunch Culture discuss in detail she strikes a small but meaningful blow
the detrimental effect that the highly for a cleaner, more wholesome culture."
sexual content on television, in music It is not only girls that are being
lyrics, in books, and on the internet has affected by today's highly charged sexual
on today's youth. Sadly, girls are buying climate, boys suffer too. Boys shouldn't
the false bill of goods that the media is be seen as sexual troglodytes incapable
selling them; that boys only want them of being kind and caring and only out for
for sex and their promiscuity leads to their own selfish needs. Like girls they
raised social status. They have also been are complex, sensitive and loving and
led to believe that the only way to need to be taught that being a man means
empowerment and equality is to be having honor and decency.
sexually aggressive like men (what men?). "Eliminate dating and replace it with
Their role models are "stars" like Pamela 'friends with benefits?'" scoffs a
Anderson, Britney Spears, Paris Hilton dedicated husband and father of two
and porn star Jenna Jameson. Not exactly little boys. "I would never want to raise
the women parents would hand pick to boys who treat girls like that. How are
shape their innocent little girls. they going to learn to relate to the
Although the findings in the above opposite sex if they use them like that?"
mentioned books are disappointing and He continues, "I want my boys to
depressing it is probably not shocking to experience the kind of deep love and
parents to learn that pornography has happiness that I have with my wife."
gone mainstream. One need just turn on For some reason it is difficult for some
the television to bare witness. Eighty parents of underage children to fully
three year old Hugh Hefner has a popular embrace the role of parent. They are
reality show glorifying his bizarre under the misconception that they can be
sexual relationship with three women, the buddies with their children, or
youngest of whom celebrated her twenty "parenting partners". It has become
first birthday while taping and wishes almost a cliché now, "children don't
she were a pimp. MTV glorifies bawdy need their parents to be their friends,
dress and behavior on shows like The Real they have enough friends, parents need to
World. parent." It is not necessary or prudent
Lewd behavior and exposure to overtly to be the "cool mom" or the "cool dad".
sexual stuff is not what parents want for Level headed, thinking grown ups know and
their kids. Parents know that celebrate the fact that they are not on
objectifying little girls is not good for the same level playing field with their
their moral, emotional, physical or underage children. Let the kids have
spiritual welfare. Putting aside the their turn at being kids; parents: it is
frightening risk of pregnancy or catching time to let go of childhood and delight
an STD, moms and dads don't want their in the role of parent.
girls getting used and degraded and they As sophisticated as children today seem,
don't want their boys to view the female they are not miniature adults. Children
half of the population as sexual objects desperately need and wish for their
begging them for sex. parents to guide them through the tough
A very loving and conservative mother stages of childhood. Using wisdom,
recounts a story that horrified her. "I intellect, established values and adult
look hot!" her four year old said problem solving skills parents can help
modeling a little two-piece bathing suit. lead the way to a bright and terrific
"Over my dead body!" mumbled the mother future. If parents abdicate their
to herself as she gently removed the suit authority in the hopes of being their
from her little one and chucked it in the children's friend, parents shouldn't be
trash. "No way am I letting her go down surprised when Jenna Jameson takes over
that road!" the mother adamantly their role.
declared. She proudly continued, "I had




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