| Here are tried and true child custody
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| | quite frankly I do not know why you would
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| tips from personal experience. It is wise
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| | want custody, this is not a personal
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| to remember each state will have its own
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| | contest, this is your child.
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| laws governing child custody matters so
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| | - 4) Offer a safe comfortable living
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| read these and absorb the knowledge these
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| | arrangement based on what is good for
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| tips will offer but also know your law.
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| | your child and their needs, not the needs
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| Some of these tips seem obvious but
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| | of someone who is single again.
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| ignore them and it will cost you. When it
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| | - 5) This did not seem as important as
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| comes to money and child custody nothing
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| | some of the others but it is, keep track
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| is left to be chanced. Family Breakups
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| | of all activities, their times, dates,
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| are usually hell, not always but.. Well
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| | expenses as questions will may come up or
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| you have heard the horror stories and
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| | accusations such as your ex saying you
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| unfortunately they are true!
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| | never showed or were late, did not pay
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| These tips as you go through this process
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| | etc.
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| will become second nature, they have to
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| | - 6) Do not discuss this with your child,
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| because you are fighting for your child,
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| | and do not cut down the other parent.
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| do I ever have to say that again? YOU ARE
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| | This only makes things worse, the ex, the
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| FIGHTING FOR YOUR CHILD!
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| | courts, and the children will become
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| The first tip is there for a reason, the
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| | angry, do not do it, besides the fact it
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| rest of these tips are in no particular
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| | may cause you to lose custody.
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| order of relevance and by no means are
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| | - 7) If you are going for custody of your
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| they the only useful tips you will find
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| | child, you are stating the other parent
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| but they are true and useful.
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| | should not be entitled. Give your reasons
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| - 1) The most important tip I can give:
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| | and make sure they are true! If they have
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| No one, I mean no one will fight or do
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| | mental problems, drug or alcohol
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| what you will do to gain custody of your
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| | addictions, are violent etc you need
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| child, right? Wrong. Your ex or soon to
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| | proof. Hearsay will not cut it and the
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| be ex will do anything, many times even
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| | courts will hold it against you if you
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| if only to defeat you. This occurs
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| | lie.
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| everyday and sadly at the expense of the
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| | - 8) Start out by making it clear you
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| child's best interest, I know this to be
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| | want custody, do not let the fact you
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| true. So right now you make the
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| | stated all along you wanted joint custody
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| determination, you provide the will, you
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| | or just custody at this time or whatever
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| give hope at any and all cost that you
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| | (unless that is what you want) this will
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| will do whatever it takes to secure
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| | give you more room to negotiate. If you
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| yourself and your child's relationship,
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| | only ask for what you think is fair to
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| which you both deserve.
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| | start, what do you have left to give?
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| - 2) Keep your cool - Do not publicly
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| | - 9) If it does not come from your lawyer
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| degrade your ex, this can and probably
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| | do not sign it, enough said. Did you hear
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| will come back to haunt you, what you say
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| | me?!
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| can be used against you. Do not even
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| | - 10) Trust your lawyer with all aspects
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| think about discussing facts of your case
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| | of your battle, but never, ever be afraid
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| with anyone you would not trust your
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| | to ask questions or voice concerns. Why?
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| kids' lives with, if you do not say it
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| | See #1
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| your ex will never hear it! Talking about
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| | - 11) Get the right lawyer, yes this is a
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| facts, evidence whatever you call it can
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| | tip, grill this person from front to
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| destroy your chance at winning. It is
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| | back, top to bottom. You must know they
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| very hard to do but the less you trust
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| | are experienced and will fight to the end
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| someone with your case the better off you
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| | for you and your child. Do not know how
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| will be, this is a fact, do not take it
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| | to get the right one? (Keep reading and
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| lightly.
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| | you will)
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| - 3) Pardon me if you think this is
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| | These are a few of my choices for top
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| stepping over the line but damn if you
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| | child custody tips; remember each state
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| want custody of your child be involved in
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| | has its own set of laws.
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| their lives. You may work hard and
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| | This article seems to be a little dark,
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| provide monetary support but if you do
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| | not very cheery, oh well child custody is
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| not take the time or make the time to do
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| | not friendly even under the best of
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| everyday activities such as school,
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| | situations. Now compound the uneasiness
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| doctor visits, hanging out together,
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| | with, anger, hurt feelings, rejection,
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| dinner, being there at bedtime, well
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| | distrust and it can become war.
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