Parenting - The Too Sexy Too Early Study - Your Daughter and Your Parenting

Parenting is labor intensive when you do it right.year old girls, that had a body that looked like she was
Have you heard about the results of the "Too Sexy20-something.
Too Early" Study by the American PsychiatricOne day when she came in for an appointment she
Association?was wearing a tight t-shirt that depicted a beach
Warning: You are about to read a RANT!scene across her chest, with a hotel in the foreground
And they needed a study to know this?with a sign that said "Rooms by the hour."
That's half the problem!I realized that she had no idea what she was
The fact that we needed a study to show that thecommunicating with her t-shirt, so I decided to have the
"sexualization" of young girls causes damage to themconversation about it with her mom present. Neither
is a symptom of the lack of common sense in ourone of them had any idea what was being
culture.communicated, both of them blushed, and both were
So the American Psychiatric Association hasvery embarrassed.
determined that all the focus on pre-teens and youngAnd this was a reasonably involved mom!
teens looking pretty and sexy is damaging. Well, that'sMy bottom line point is this:
a good start. I'd like to see what they are gonna doWhile the bodies of young teenage girls may have
about it.matured to the point of being able to have sex, in no
I remember a family I worked with years ago that hadway are they emotionally, mentally, or spiritually
a 14 year old daughter. This was a girl, like many 14prepared to have sex or to be sexualized.