| What is the #1 most important parenting tip of all time, | | | | your brain. As soon as you realize you are wandering |
| for a child of any age? With all the Do's and Don't's | | | | just look in her eyes and remember what is so |
| and all the things on our minds everyday let's cut to the | | | | important to you. If this is truly important to you, you |
| chase. | | | | have to keep practicing this. Now don't beat up on |
| That would be a definite, hands down very simple | | | | yourself, just gently realign with what is important. In |
| answer;to just LIVE IN THE PRESENT MOMENT | | | | time you will start to live in the present moment in |
| WITH THEM. | | | | every area of your life and this is Conscious Living. |
| Whatya mean? Live in the present moment? Of | | | | And It is Awesome! |
| course I am in the present moment! | | | | Now, as I promised; the next part. This part makes it |
| But not really...well at least not for more than 15 | | | | so much more easy. And it is all about your |
| seconds at a time! We as parents, well actually we as | | | | EMOTIONS. You were born with emotions and they |
| humans just have SO MUCH on our minds all the time. | | | | tell us so much. The majority of humans do not use |
| Thinking, worrying, planning, etc. etc. etc. Even when | | | | them as a tool to help themselves. But this is exactly |
| we are doing something we usually have 10 other | | | | what they are. Paying attention to the way you feel is |
| things on our minds at the same time. | | | | way easier than trying to watch your thoughts. |
| Now I will tell you from experience, Kids Know the | | | | Okay, this is how it works. You want to feel good. You |
| Difference when you are "All There" or "Not". And Let | | | | definitely know when you don't feel good. If you are |
| me tell you they really LOVE it when you are! If you | | | | not 100% "there" with your child engaging with them on |
| can do this, | | | | all levels and appreciating them with all your heart or |
| They will just SHINE! You will get more hugs and more | | | | helping them with all your soul your emotions will tell |
| smiles than you can ever imagine. | | | | you. You just will not feel all that great. |
| Now how do I do this? It sounds easy but go ahead | | | | Ask yourself how do I want to feel right now? Then |
| and try it. Your mind will keep slipping off to think about | | | | clear your head, look into your child's eyes and be with |
| "other stuff" The funny thing is the "other stuff" never | | | | them. Be with their heart. Be with their soul. |
| means as much to you as your child does. Then at the | | | | Play with them. Talk to them. It really doesn't matter |
| end of the day you always carry that guilt because | | | | what you do, just be there 100%. |
| you really did not connect like you really wanted to. | | | | Now, check how do you feel? If you feel great, |
| This WILL go on for the rest of your life. So why can't | | | | energized, uplifted and happy then you know you are |
| you focus on what matters? | | | | doing it! |
| I am going to tell you the secret and at first you may | | | | You will make your child the happiest child on the block |
| not like my answer, but hang on for the next part. | | | | and You will be the Happiest Parent EVER! |
| The Secret is It Takes Practice. It is really like training | | | | |