A Bedtime Routine For Preschool-Aged Children

Having a bedtime routine is one good way to ensureminutes or so. This helps them burn out their last little bit
your preschool-aged child gets a good night's sleep.of energy before they're ready to go to sleep. They
Children respond very well to routines in their dailyusually tell us they're ready to go to sleep before we
schedules, and bedtime is no exception. Having atake their games away from them.
bedtime routine gives your child an opportunity to windOne of our boys falls asleep as soon as his head hits
down from the day's activities and not be as likely tothe pillow. Our other son has a really hard time falling
fight your efforts to get them to go to bed.asleep. We let him take a few small toys to bed and
Getting children this age to bed can sometimes feelhe plays with them and talks to himself until he is finally
like an overwhelming chore. Supernanny makes it lookready to fall asleep.
so easy. I don't claim to have all the answers. AllOur boys like us to lie with them until they fall asleep.
children are different and respond to different routines.This is something you have to be careful of...if your
My goal is to share with you our family's bedtimechildren become dependent upon you sleeping with
routine that has worked well with our twinthem, this can be the start of a habit that is very hard
four-year-old boys.to break. Many young children start waking up in the
Some parents start a bedtime routine by having theirmiddle of the night and wanting you to sleep with them.
children take a bath. My boys don't take a bath everyYou definitely don't want to encourage this. We just
day, but bath time is a good way to signal to your kidsfinished going through a stage where our boys would
that it's almost time for bed. I usually start bath timewake up in the middle of the night and want us to
about an hour before it's time to head off to theirsleep with them. They've finally started sleeping in their
bedroom to get ready for bed.own beds all night again. We do lie with them until they
I send my boys to their bedroom an hour before Ifall asleep, and then they do stay in their beds all night
want them to go to sleep. They get their pajamas on,(for the most part!). I really enjoy lying next to them
brush their teeth, and then we read a couple of storieswhile they fall asleep. It is a special time for us to
together. They each get to pick at least one story.spend together and often a time for silly songs and
Sometimes I read to them and sometimes their dadstories.
reads to them. Often we read to them at the sameBedtime routines do take a commitment on your part
time.to get your kids ready for bed each night. You will
A fun way to mix things up a bit is to listen to bookshave to get in the habit of reading them stories and sit
on tape. There are a number of great books on tapetalking to them as they get ready to go to sleep. While
for preschool-aged children. A number of them areit is indeed time consuming, it can become one of the
published by Scholastic.best parts of the day. The more your child enjoys this
After stories, our boys often still aren't ready to go totime, the easier time he or she will have going to sleep
sleep. We usually then turn off the lights and let themeach night.
play with their Leapster video games for about 15