| The beginning of marriage relationship is usually very | | | | succeed. The people working there must give it to the |
| sweet for most couples. During this period their | | | | business. There are certain things also that a marital |
| expectation is high in terms of positive achievements in | | | | relationship require to make it successful, which may |
| their profession, business and having a happy marriage | | | | not be convenient for people involved because of |
| generally. But, subsequently if there is any little set back | | | | work or some other engagements like creating time to |
| or challenge, things will begin to fall apart sooner than | | | | make that phone call, spending a weekend together, |
| they had expected. Instead of either of them to ask, | | | | which the marriage requires to make it enduring and |
| "What is the problem with our relationship and how do | | | | the partners in the relationship must give to it. |
| we move on?" They will be asking, is this all there is to | | | | Everything we do in life requires time, effort and |
| marriage? Is this all there is to life? On the contrary, | | | | commitment. Why shouldn't our marriage get the same |
| they should be aware that they have all it takes to | | | | level of attention that our job or career gets? We take |
| make the relationship work at their disposal, and that | | | | continuous efforts to improve our professional lives by |
| for any positive change to take place in the | | | | taking further educational classes and attending various |
| relationship, they need to change themselves. And this | | | | relevant seminars. We believe by doing so we'll qualify |
| is where many couples get it wrong | | | | for salary increases, promotions or even bigger |
| You should be aware that marriage is a serious | | | | challenges at work. Why not take classes or attend |
| business; it has seed and harvest time, it has its good | | | | relevant seminars for our personal lives so that we |
| and bad side. It should be well nurtured and taken good | | | | can improve that aspect of our life as well? |
| care of, for you to get positive returns. You should be | | | | Have you ever wondered why some couples stay |
| aware that your life and your happiness were your | | | | together for so long and others call it quits within a |
| responsility. Your satisfaction and fulfillment in | | | | very short time. A careful survey has revealed that it's |
| relationship will have to come from within you and not | | | | not what happens to us that determines the quality of |
| from an outside source or intervention. Instead of | | | | our marriage. It's what we do about what happens |
| feeling sorry for yourselves, you should make candid | | | | that will determine the quality of our lives together. The |
| effort toward communication and intimacy. You should | | | | reality about marriages is that most relationships |
| have it at the back of your Mind that if your marriage | | | | experience similar problems. They all have their share |
| is to survive, you have to create time for it, put some | | | | of boredom, routine, financial problems, problems with |
| thought and effort into it. When you see your marriage | | | | children, problems with the relatives and extended |
| as a serious business, you will treat it as such. | | | | family members, and major life disappointments |
| If it is true that you will not want a business you have | | | | generally. The difference was that problems which |
| invested so much time, energy and money into to fail, | | | | might cause other relationships to fall apart brought |
| you should also not allow your relationship to fail as | | | | couples in successful relationship closer together. |
| you have also invested a lot into it from day one. This | | | | Lastly, it should be noted that a good marriage doesn't |
| will make you see your relationship as one big business | | | | depend on finding the right partner. It depends largely |
| entity that is separate from its owners. There are | | | | on being the right partner. A marriage requires that you |
| certain things that are required for a business to | | | | make daily effort to be exactly the person that you |
| succeed which the people working there may not like, | | | | would want to be married to. |
| but because the business requires these things to | | | | |