ADHD Parenting Tip - Focus More on Differences Than on Diagnosis When Raising a Child With ADHD

ADHD is a complicated condition that is totallyfocus on making these children do things the same
misunderstood by most people. As a medical conditionway as everyone else?
or disorder, most people are led to believe they shouldChildren with ADHD are different. They learn
be focusing on the problems. After all, we send peopledifferently, and they think differently. Their bodies
to a physician or pediatrician who identifies what isrequire stimulation to remain focused on a certain topic.
wrong, and then provides us with medication or a planAnd when they are not focused, they tend to get
to "fix" what is wrong.bored easily.
While this approach might work with most medicalIt really is that simple.
diagnoses, this is not the approach to take with ADHD.The next time you see a child who is struggling, rather
People with ADHD are not broken, and they don'tthan label them with a diagnosis, embrace them for
need to be fixed. As a matter of fact, many of thesetheir unique talents and what they offer the world.
children have tremendous strengths and qualities thatThese children who are struggling today, have the
will serve them well in life. Unfortunately, most peoplepower to accomplish just as much as their peers
never realize that because we are being told to focuswithout ADHD.
on the problems.Differences are what revolutionize the world and the
Let's Get One Thing Straightway we see things.
An individual with ADHD has a brain that functionsIn no way am I suggesting that you ignore the
differently than most other people. Bottom line. Theydiagnosis, or need to be diagnosed. Instead, I am asking
are not broken. They are not less of a human being.that you focus more on the differences. Find the
And they are not doomed to a life of struggle orstrengths in your child, and help them develop the skills
inadequacy. Last time I checked, there are a lot ofwe all need in life.
people in this world who are struggling with differentBrought to you by Dr. Rory Stern &
things.ADHDFamilyOnline.
If we are aware of these differences, why do we