| When I started working exclusively with children and | | | | listen. Some people won't support you, and they won't |
| families affected by ADHD, I did it because I wanted to | | | | offer any bit of care, concern, or compassion for your |
| personally make sure the right information was getting | | | | situation. |
| into the right hands. I was seriously amazed at how | | | | The Basics: |
| little information people seemed to know about ADHD. | | | | I'm a man who believes in the basics. When it comes |
| And I'm not just talking about the patients either. A lot | | | | to parenting children with ADHD, before I teach |
| of professionals just don't understand ADHD beyond | | | | strategies, I rely on the basics of parenting to establish |
| the basics. | | | | a very strong foundation. |
| But that's another story entirely. What really concerns | | | | I also believe in the "golden rule" of "Do unto others as |
| me today are the people who not only don't | | | | you would have them do unto you!" |
| understand ADHD, but don't care to or even attempt | | | | When someone blames you, or gives you the exact |
| to. You likely know who I'm talking about. These are | | | | opposite of anything supportive, it makes me wonder |
| the people who want to blame you. They think ADHD | | | | two things: |
| is just an excuse, and have no problem telling you. | | | | |
| Maybe you've heard some of these before: | | | | 1. What purpose does that negativity serve? |
| - ADHD is just an excuse for bad parenting | | | | 2. What benefit do they gain from insulting you? |
| - ADHD is for people who don't want to discipline their | | | | I'm not trying to be naive here. Rather, I want to take |
| children | | | | the opportunity to let you know that you don't have to |
| - ADHD is an excuse to drug kids | | | | stand for this type of attitude or response. You need, |
| - And on and on the list goes... | | | | and deserve, support from people who accept what |
| None of them are true, but some people just won't | | | | you are dealing with. |