| It is often difficulty to maintain control of your impulses | | | | reaches his or her limits and returns the attack on the |
| when others around us make us mad. It is even more | | | | child, he then becomes the culprit and is often punished. |
| difficult when the prices in the economy increases | | | | The bully too many times gets away with his behavior, |
| every year, and the legal and political system is | | | | and once the victim takes action he or she is often |
| constantly putting more demands on us everyday. | | | | punished. The school personnel will often say why |
| Most of us deal with the stressors in life as they come | | | | didn't you tell me what was going on? However, the |
| our way, but some of us get out of control. | | | | fact is the child most likely told the personnel and in my |
| Management is often the solution for treating anger; | | | | experiences, they rarely act. Now we have two |
| however, the person must be willing to admit their | | | | children with anger problems and more people in |
| actions are causing more problems. When a person | | | | trouble. This is only one of the many reasons why a |
| acts out violently, verbally abusive, assault and so on it | | | | person cultivates anger to a degree of explosion. |
| not only causes problem for the person out of control, | | | | Each time we are angry we feel it in our body and |
| it also causes problems for others. | | | | mind. Our body will often tense when we feel angry. If |
| Often when a person has anger issues he or she will | | | | you feel this tension then it is time to step back and |
| attack others whether physically or mentally. The | | | | take control. |
| angered person will often attack in a way that belittles, | | | | Why am I mad? Why do I feel this way? Asking |
| humiliates, harms, or threatens another life. This person | | | | yourself questions can help you find the answers if |
| will need to learn to control his or her anger, since | | | | you search your mind hard enough. Usually after a |
| everyone around him or her is in a degree of danger, | | | | person has developed a level of anger that is out of |
| and sometimes more danger than others. | | | | control, they will often strike out at persons even if |
| Anger is the inability to restrain the impulses, desires | | | | there is no justifiable cause. |
| and emotions. When a person is out of contact with | | | | The person could have moved something that |
| his emotions, it often creates a chaotic mind. When a | | | | belonged to that person and they will react by saying |
| person is threatened, it is always good to have a | | | | something like you stupid moron, why in the hell did you |
| degree of anger to protect. However when a person | | | | move my belongings? I cannot believe how stupid you |
| does not have control then it can lead to trouble. | | | | are. Why do you bother breathing? This is only a few |
| Anger, sadness, joy and happy are all parts of out | | | | examples of a verbal attack issued by an angered |
| emotions, and when we have those emotions in | | | | person. |
| control we often live a productive life. However, when | | | | The person may attack physically by kicking, hitting, |
| we seem to a target of attack then it is more difficult | | | | punching, spitting, or causing other types of harm to the |
| for us to manage our life and anger. For example, | | | | person. It is important to get management in play if you |
| some children go to school and each day a bully will | | | | have anger problems. If you cannot control your |
| antagonize this child pushing him beyond his or her | | | | emotions then one day, someone will control them for |
| control. | | | | you. Anger is good if you have it under control, but |
| The child may hold his feelings in for a period, but | | | | when you .loose control someone, someday will pay |
| eventually he or she is going to loose control, since | | | | and that someone in many cases will be you as well |
| none of us is willing to continue allowing someone to | | | | as the trail of victims behind you. |
| make our lives miserable. Unfortunately, when this child | | | | |