Bad Parenting

Bringing a child into the world itself is a greatArguments often occur at homes, between elders or
responsibility. Holding a newborn and nursing the childspouses but this is to be avoided in front of children.
makes us feel overwhelmed. But parenting is anOften a happy child is a result of a happy environment.
ongoing phase and a nourishing activity. This is boundThe emotional security of the child is not threatened
by emotions, by actions and expectations. There areand hence the child stays happy. Physical abuse
no formula methods or ready-to-apply skills to solvetraumatizes children and swearing should also be
parenting problems, as each child is different. Theavoided in front of them.
moment we start parenting, our priorities change.Our personality has a direct bearing on our children.
Learning is one thing that remains constant and all ofExpressing love is very important in a family. Children
us learn from mistakes.actually glow when they hear praises and this is
There are several mistakes we do as parents. Firstly,encouraging for them. Constant bickering or name
all of us expect our children to excel in academic andcalling is a sign of bad parenting. Acknowledging faults
extra curricular performances. When we see ourand saying sorry is very healthy. Children understand
children failing or lagging behind we silently feel a tingewhen explained logically and pardon us quite easily.
of sadness. What is achieved by our child's friendExplaining to them about an abusive situation and
cannot be compared with our own child. Each child haspromising them about security helps them erase
a different milestone and though they cannotphobias. Giving children choices in wearing party
communicate, each child has varied interest levels.clothes or choosing the birthday dress is like
Channeling our own ambitions into the child's feats is aempowering them. When you give them choices let
sign of bad parenting.them take a wholesome decision. Constantly hovering
The most common problem faced by parents is thataround them makes us a helicopter parent and this
their child is often bursting into tantrums. This is anotherthreatens their individuality.
pointer at our own actions and behavior at home.