Better Parenting - Teaching by Example

Children learn much from their parents' examples -It is challenging for parents to always relate with their
habits that stand them in good or bad steadchildren without acting contrary to what is expected of
throughout life, good or bad manners for good or badthem. Parents are humans. If you lost your temper with
relationships and moral upbringing that keeps them onyour children or acted in a way contrary to what is
course.expected of you, use your poor behaviour to teach a
Teaching children by example is an effective way forpositive example. Admit your mistakes and apologize.
parents to instill better values in their children. They canThe children would learn that parents are humans and
teach their children effectively even if they do not saythey make mistakes too. They also learn that that
a word all day. Hence lessons taught verbally shouldwhat they should do is to apologize when they make
be put into action. Actions teach.mistakes.
For example, parents may tell their children to beParents should strive to be good examples. As the
hardworking and honest. If these parents do thehead of the family whatever you say is what you
opposite, they teach that this is how adults shouldshould do. Don't say one thing and do another. Children
behave. One of the most powerful ways by whichare likely to accept counsel if they sense that the one
children learn is by copying their parents.giving the counsel is practicing it. Teach by example.