Fathers' unique parenting skills can help child's social development

According to new research, it may be beneficial forgonna make it!" during a video game or a
fathers to be a kid again, at least for a little bit.good-humored "You think you can take down the old
For some fathers, wrestling and playing video gamesman? Have at it!" before some playful wrestling.
with their kids can lead to some light teasing on bothThe key, according to the researchers, is to make
sides, especially if you are losing. While it may notsure everyone is laughing and having a good time.
seem like it, recent studies have found that thisThey suggest fathers use their parenting skills to
practice of teasing can be a helpful parenting skill inidentify if the teasing crosses over to bullying.
improving a child's social development.If some slight aggression does emerge from the
New research from the National Communicationteasing, fathers can use the opportunity to teach their
Association found teasing can be a positivechild about the difference between teasing and bullying,
experience in child development because it teacheswhich may help the child in a school environment.
them "how to show affection and deal with conflict."This somewhat loose approach toward parenting can
"Research shows us that even very young childrenbenefit a child's social, physical and intellectual
can recognize that teasing is not always bad; thatdevelopment, according to Dr. Kyle Pruett, a professor
sometimes it can be a fun way to play with friendsof child psychiatry at Yale and author of Fatherneed.
and family," said Carol Bishop Mills, one of the authorsBy engaging children in this nontraditional manner,
of the study.fathers may also develop strong bonds with their kids
This may include a light-hearted "I don't think you'rethat may not have been formed another way.