Impatience and ADHD Children

Certainly less attention is paid to the topic ofenvelope as far a possible to get it. While our story
impatience and ADHD children in comparison toabove focused on cartoon character cereal chances
hyperactivity or inattention but make no mistake thisare the next isle over the story will repeat itself.
symptom can be every bit as frustrating for parents.Impatience is actually the difficulty in delaying
Let's look at little Johnny as he accompanies hisgratification or a problem with self regulation which
mother on their weekly shopping trip and see if thisfrom a biological point of view is likely an imbalance
reminds you of anyone you know.between two brain messenger chemicals;
Mother and son arrive at the grocery store with a list anorepinephrine and dopamine. The chemical imbalance
mile long. On isle number one Johnny spots a cerealcreating impatience drives some ADHD children to be
box with a character from his favorite television show.exceeding impatient on a regular basis. The constant
He points and says something about give me cereal.tantrums will wear event the most loving and well
His mother has learned to somewhat tune him out someaning parent down over time, causing many to be
they pass it by, at this point little Johnny startsnumb to it leading them to simply throw in the towel
screaming at the top of his lungs for the cereal box.and accept it. They may even justify it by saying their
Discipline is suggested, treats are offered, his favoriteson or daughter is more energetic, curious, or
toy this week is placed in plain sight, and nothing canpassionate than most.
slow the temper tantrum. Finally, his mother relents,As these children grow to school age they face a
after all her next door neighbor is in the store, and thewhole set of potentially troublesome challenges such
embarrassment is reaching a point that if giving him theas running down the hall to be first in line, messy school
box of cartoon character cereal is what it takes towork full of mistakes, arguments with classmates over
make him calm down then it is a small price to pay.seat choices, failure to fully read and understand
ENDdirections, or sloppy unintelligible handwriting. All of the
The story above repeats itself thousands of times aabove examples are potentially problematic in a school
day in grocery stores, restaurants, and malls all acrosssetting and likely could play a major role in the 80%
the country. When an ADHD child gets an idea in hisunderachievement rate seen in ADHD school aged
head about something he wants, he will push thechildren.