Parenting Tip - 4 Ways That Laughing Bonds

Whoever said that "Laughter is the best medicine"your child an "A" or 100 on a test, they give your child
knew what they were talking about. In "the olden days"the feeling of being smart. A genuine laugh from a
we only knew this intuitively. Today, however, scientificparent or older sibling is even more powerful than the
research shows that laughter is really the "the bestteacher giving them a good grade.
medicine" (O.K. it's second to antibiotics. but it is surely3. It builds self confidence. A laugh is a sign that they
GOOD medicine.).were successful in their mission (to be funny). Success
It stimulates production of endorphines in the brain,breeds success which, in turn, builds self confidence.
relieves stress, increases oxygen in the body and4. Teaches how to lose gracefully. Life skills are mainly
even strengthens the heart muscles. It does all of thislearnt in the home and one of the most important life
with no harmful side effects and it isn't even difficult toskills is "how to lose". Sore losers have difficulty making
swallow!friends and staying in relationships (who wants to be a
The benefits of laughing, however, don't end with thefriend of someone who always has to be right?).
person who laughs. Your child, spouse, and all of yourWhen you joke around with your children and they
family members (who said the joke) also gainoutsmart you, just laugh it off. This is the best
tremendously when you laugh when they sayeducation that you can give them; how to lose.
something witty, sharp, or funny.For instance, 2 years ago, I was coming home in a taxi
In this article I will show you 4 ways that your familyand my young son was waiting for my arrival on the
members gain when you show that what they say issidewalk. He was so excited that he ran into the street
funny or witty.to greet me- right into a moving car! Thank Heaven,
1. It builds self esteem. Let's face it; expect for messingnothing happened to him but it was very close.
around with a computer there are very few things thatWe brought him to the hospital and after we got a
a child can do as good as their parents. No matterpositive report my 16 year old boy said jokingly,
how good they play the flute, draw, or play ball it"Daddy, I can't believe anybody can be so excited to
usually isn't on the level of talented adults doing thesee you!" I laughed and he laughed.
same thing. The compliments that they do receive forHe might have "gotten me", but I taught him the
their accomplishments are usually "age appropriate"important lesson of how to lose.
However when it comes to wit and humor, even realLaughing is the best medicine for you, the one that
young children are equal or funnier than adults. Whenlaughs, and also for the one who tried to be funny and
we laugh at their jokes we boost their self esteem.make you laugh. Use this important tool to be a better
2. It makes them feel smart. When a teacher givesparent and to help your children.