Sandy - My Spiritual and Inspirational Friend With Autism

Sandy, a nonverbal student with autism, displayedmessages were often spiritual. It was difficult to
significant sensory, movement, and auditory processingdetermine where the information was coming from.
problems. Expecting competence and talking to him atIndividuals I have used FC with or supported by holding
a soul level seemed to have a profound effect. Inthe keyboard as thy hit the keys independently seem
contrast, he continued to demonstrate difficultyto share my vocabulary and knowledge base, but not
following basic concrete verbal directives. He remainedmy writing style.
dependent on visual cues such as pictures, signs, andOne morning, I was astonished during the morning talk; I
or gestures.asked Sandy what day it was as I held out a
Early on, Sandy pulled my hand to point to simplekeyboard. I expected him to type "Friday". Instead, he
choices in his communication book. He could not maketyped Frank Logan, the name of a deceased parent
these selections on his own. When Sandy beganof a former student of mine. The student had been in
working from a field of choices, initially, he would holdmy class eight years prior in a different state. (His
my hand and take me to the correct response. Onefather had died suddenly. His son was a student in my
day, instead of holding my right hand with his right handclassroom at the time and his mother had requested
and using me as a tool to aid his selection, he grabbedthat I try to explain it to him.) After Sandy typed the
my right hand with his left hand, as he made selections,letters "f r a n", of the name, admittedly this man's
unaided with his right hand. He still needed physicalname popped into my head as Sandy continued to
contact with me, but he did not need me to hold thetype "Frank Logan". Sandy typed a message about his
hand he was selecting the correct answers withson.
anymore. Eventually, he let go of the left hand too. If heStunned, I asked another nonverbal student who was
was sitting in close proximity, he could accuratelysitting next to Sandy if he could explain what had just
select appropriate word cards by name, by function,occurred. I held the keyboard as he typed, "Sandy is a
and as a response to questions asked. Often hecatalyst for dead people." I then asked, "How about
would give me the correct response before I had timeyou?" He replied, "No, that is Sandy's thing." I then held
to finish asking the question.the keyboard in front of Sandy. Remembering, that on
His answers were accurate and instantaneous whenseveral prior occasions, he had typed "Jesus", I
selecting responses in words. He was less accurate ifmuttered, " You don't channel Jesus, do you? As close
the response was in picture format. The most errorsas I can remember, he typed, " No, Jesus great friend, I
were made when he was expected to choosecan step aside and let the great heart of Jesus speak
three-dimensional objects. Did it occur because wordsthrough me just as you can step aside and let me
are constant, but pictures are more varied, andspeak through you. It is just a matter of stepping down
three-dimensional objects differ even more? Is itof vibration."
possible that sending the image of a three-dimensionalSince Sandy, like many others had repeatedly proven
object is perceived differently between sender andthat he was sensitive to my mental prompts, I once
receiver? (E.g. Like many others, if I were seated andagain was unable to determinable as to what was
asked him to give me the word "ruler," he would becoming from him, what was coming from me, what
fast and accurate. But if I asked him to hand me amight have come from joining our subconscious minds,
picture of a ruler, his accuracy, although still good, waswhat might be coming from Spirit/higher levels of
somewhat diminished. If I asked for the actual ruler, heconsciousness/the universal cognitive field.
would have the most difficult time. To furtherNonetheless, I am humbled and impressed with anyone
complicate issues, if I asked him to get up to get a rulerof the possibilities.
on my desk a few feet away, as soon as he stoodLessons learned from Sandy:o Many children may use
up, he would be lost-unless I showed him a picture ofyour hand as a tool for selection.o Many children need
the ruler or gave it to him as he was walking there.)physical contact or close proximity with the agent
When gross motor movements were involved, allfacilitator in order to communicate.o Some children
circuits seemed to shut down.need visual prompts when a child has to move even if
Sandy learned to use PECS (Picture Exchangehe seems to understand you while seated, yet he is
System) and voice output communication deviceslost while moving.
independently during snack time. Also, he was fluentSuppositions:o Some students may be gleaning
when making basic requests based on routines,information from the memory banks of others.
nonetheless, responding to questions demandedExamine possibilities of the effect that your
"agent" proximity. In addition, he could not write or drawanticipatory responses may have.o Some messages
on his own, however, he could move my hand to domay be coming from the subconscious, spirit world, or
so if I held the writing utensil.a universal cognitive field.o Saying all information is
As Sandy's motor skills improved, he could type letter"definitely" coming from the person who types without
for letter and word for word what I was consciouslyany outside influence is not true in my experience. I
"sending" him if I held the keyboard. When we "joined"cannot speak for others.
in what I refer to as "conscious surrender". Sandy's