Ten Sources of Help for Parents

At one time or another we all need help and parentsPediatrics for children's health issues. Parents can also
are no exceptions. Parents have long lamented thatfind empathy and advice from other parents in forums,
children do not come with an instruction manual.chat rooms and on blogs.
Sometimes parenting can be a lonely job and parentsYour church or other religious affiliation can be a good
simply need to feel validated that they are on the rightsource of help for parents. Churches can offer
track with their kids. There are also sources that caninstructional support on parenting skills in the form of
give a parent new ideas on how to care for theirparenting classes or Sunday School classes. They can
children better.also offer practical helps such as babysitting, preschool
One of the first places a parent can go for help isprograms, scouting programs and consignment sales
parenting magazines. As a rule magazines will give afor children's clothing. They can be a social outlet for
good overview on accepted thoughts on childparents and their kids. They are also a good place to
development and health issues. Every once in a whilefind other parents with the same values that you have.
a magazine will publish something that seems a bit offBooks are a great source of parenting advice by the
or contrary to common sense. This can happen canexperts and can be purchased online or in bookstores.
magazines can be inclined to be a bit sensational to sellAnother great source of books is your public library.
more issues.Books can give you the perspective from other
Another source of help is your child's school counselor.parents, as well as educational and medical experts.
They can be a great place to go if your child hasPeople you know like your friends who are parents,
learning disabilities or problems with friends in school.your own parents and your grandparents can be a
Anytime a child is having difficulty in school, a schoolsource of help. Friends can swap babysitting, parenting
counselor is one to approach.anecdotes and sympathy with you. Your parents can
Your child's teacher is also a great source of help. Aalso be a source of advice, but do not feel you must
teacher spends hours a day in a room with twenty orfollow their advice just because they are your parents.
more youngsters of approximately the same age. AYou are still the parent of your child and must weigh all
teacher will have a good feel for what is the expectedthe advice you get before you choose to act on what
development for a child of that age. Teachers canfeels right for your child.
also give an adult perspective of what is going onParenting is a difficult job and parents need all the help
between one child and another at school.they can get. Every child, parent and family situation is
The internet can be a dubious source of help fordifferent, so parents cannot automatically assume that
parents. Anybody can publish anything on the internetadvice will translate well to their own circumstances.
so be careful of this source. On the other hand theHowever the above sources can be very helpful
website for a real world parenting resource can bewhen considered with care. Sources such as these
very helpful. An example of this would be the websitecan be great for providing creative new ways of
for the La Leche League which offers breastfeedingconsidering a problem and its solutions.
support or the website for the American Academy for