| h1> | | | | didn’t, it is often much easier to quickly divert the |
| Diversion is one of those good old-fashioned remedies | | | | child's attention before the obnoxious behaviour has |
| that has stood up to the test of time and still comes | | | | time to take hold. |
| out with flying colours. So what is it, and how can we | | | | There is a precise moment at which the clever parent |
| use it? Think back to those balmy days of your own | | | | can step into a situation and take control, guiding the |
| childhood. You were at your granny’s house | | | | child to an activity or item which is much more socially |
| and about to introduce yourself to her collection of | | | | acceptable. It must be remembered that if you can |
| attractively coloured balls of wool which she kept for | | | | divert the attention of the child onto a 'side-stream' (ie |
| her knitting. Suddenly you heard granny calmly say, | | | | something not directly involving you) you will find |
| I’ve just remembered I have a box of | | | | yourself less busy. |
| French Fancies cakes in the cupboard’. Your | | | | Some parents argue that the use of diversion is |
| mind was instantly redirected towards this fascinating | | | | improper, claiming that it deceives the child therefore |
| new prospect and the balls of wool went on to fulfil | | | | teaching it dishonesty. I believe the answer to this is |
| their destiny as an itchy jumper for you that next | | | | two fold. Firstly the art of diversion has been practiced |
| Christmas. | | | | for centuries. It works and helps prevent fights, |
| Today's parents can use exactly the same technique | | | | accidents and other non desirable things from |
| with the same success. It is particularly useful with | | | | happening, therefore, you would be mad not to use it. |
| younger children. When it looks like a child is about to | | | | Secondly I think it could be argued that diversion is also |
| do something that you’d really rather it | | | | a form of entertainment. |