The Right School is Crucial for Aspergers Children

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Mainstream or Special Schools for Asperger Children?Frequently, not very well. With their unique interpretation
There has been a lot of emphasis over recent yearsof the world, and of social interactions, they often end
on "inclusion". The idea is that integrating children intoup lashing out or getting into conflict with both other
mainstream schools rather than placing them in specialstudents and teachers. Often they feel they are being
schools is a "Good Thing". But is it?unfairly treated, and unfairly punished.
Children with Aspergers syndrome see the world in aFast forward this a few years and you have a
different way. With their fixed ideas and concretedispirited child who is on the verge of being expelled
thinking they can often come across as very pedantic.from the school for bad behavior.
They may also be obsessed with some micro-topicA very different scenario could occur in a special
and have little interest in general academic topics thatschool. Staffed with teachers and carers with both the
they may regard as irrelevant. With their social skilltraning and the time to take a special interest in these
problems they over act inappropriately in socialchildren, the kids often get much more support and
interactions.help with their social skills. Their self esteem improves,
Because of all this, other people, particularly their peers,and so does their behavior.
may regard them as "weird" or "odd". Often this endsThe students, likewise, tend to be much more tolerant
up with them being teased and bullied. Then, becauseof each other's idiosyncracies, since they have
of their problems with social interactions, they canthemselves suffered teasing. With the right
react to this with aggression or violence - lashing out atenvironment, these children develop a positive self
those that torment them.esteem, a fascination for learning (in their unique style)
At the same time they have great difficulties with theirand, ultimately, a much better outcome than they might
teachers who are just trying to teach a subject. Withhave had in a mainstream school.
their pedantic interest in micro-topics they can be veryEvery child is difficult. Surely it is logical that we cannot
tiresome to teach. Not only that, but if the teacherjust apply a blanket ideology to all children as though
seems to handle situations in any way unfairly, this toothey were merely sausage meat going through a
will be challenged by the Asperger child.sausage factory? Unique children require unique
Being perceived as oddballs by their peers, and havingsolutions in order to succeed, and if that means a
to cope with teachers who do not understand theirspecial school, well, then so be it!
ways of thinking, how to these children fare in