Tips for Parents of Left-Handed Children

The floors of the living space of our home isfirst spontaneously grabs a toy.
completely laid with marble, cut out of limestone, andHaving identified a left handed child positively,  support
polished to a silvery sheen. It was cool for the tropicsthe child by helping him with writing and painting
and for the hot day.exercises.
But it was also slippery, especially if water is spilt on toLeft handed kids have tensed-up hand position. When
it.they write with their left hand, they get tensed up
That was why, one fine day, our baby boy Vin whoeasier because they find it harder to see what they
was barely a toddler at three years old, stepped on hisare writing.
split drink from his plastic cup, and fell.Therefore, the parent should lay the paper to the left
The doctor diagnosed a slight fracture on his left hand,of the child, and clockwise about 30 degrees to the
and after a few days in a sling, the fracture healed byright, with the hand held below the line on which the
itself as it was very slight, and he was well again.child is writing.
That taught us a lesson of home safety for kids.Teach the child to use his right hand to hold the paper
Always ensure the floors are dry if they are noton the right side.
carpeted.Should a parent force the left handed child to use his
But there was more to this.right?
I discovered Nature had a way to compensate for theThe Green Cross emphasised that parents must
fracture. Very soon, it seemed Vin liked to use his leftnever force and try to train a left handed child to
hand that had been fractured before more often thanbecome right-handed. Reasons?
his right, and that became his strong hand.The left-handed child will start to have concentration
He was using his left hand for writing, for playing withproblems and difficulties, and also develop negative
the crayons, and for holding his toys.psychological effects later on in life.
He was a "leftie"!Did I force my son to be ambextrous aand to use
Questions raced through my mind.both his hands for writing?
Should I trained him against his natural desires to beWhen he was 10 years old, I took him to the largest
ambivalent - to use both hands for writing? Would it beLeft-Handed Shop in the world. It was located in The
harmful to him emotionally and personally? How wouldQuay, in Sydney Harbor area. He was beaming with all
this affect him when he is older? Would he resentthe toys, the utensils and everything else that was
having been forced against his will?designed for the left-handed world. Here inside this
What a dilemma it was!shop, he was able to find everything designed to meet
Let us see what the German advice center forhis needs as a left-hander.
left-handers, "The Green Cross" in Marburg said.To this day, Vin is still left-handed and writes beautifully
The first test to apply is to identify the left-handed child.with his left hand.
This is easily done by observing with which hand he