| Mums and dads who say "I would like to transform my | | | | Quite simply, it all begins with a structure, a guideline. |
| child" clearly don't appreciate their child's behaviour. | | | | From my own experience, using a parenting method is |
| Prior to sharing with you what you should do, I would | | | | the best decision you can make. I wanted to |
| like you to understand that kids are not bad. Their | | | | "transform my child" at one point too and implementing |
| behaviour can be undesirable but not them, for the | | | | advices from other parents where not effective |
| very reason that their personality is a work in progress, | | | | enough. Since then, I wrote many articles about |
| and you're doing that work. What I mean is that | | | | parenting and I know that the advices I give to other |
| transforming your child therefore means changing your | | | | mothers and fathers will not always be sufficient |
| own behavior too. But I guess that if you ask "how to | | | | mainly because when there is no structure in the |
| transform my child?", you already know you're the one | | | | family, mothers and fathers really have to develop one, |
| who has to do something about the problem and | | | | decide on a guideline to stick to. |
| asking your little one to change is useless. | | | | A parenting program gives structure, effective |
| Listed below is a list of what you're going to need if | | | | communication tools and support. You need nothing |
| you want to transform your kid: | | | | other than that because by transforming your |
| - coherence | | | | parenting style, you'll create totally different reactions in |
| - persistence | | | | your kid which will be the starting point of his own |
| - guideline | | | | transformation. It's a consequence. |
| - love | | | | I applied a really good parenting program, appropriated |
| - patience | | | | to my daughter's age and personality, and I did |
| - principles | | | | transform my child! The web site I launched with other |
| - communication | | | | parents, included in my bio, could interest you. Children's |
| - support | | | | bad behavior isn't a fatality! |