Raising Children is not Easy

The idea of having children and raising them has beenthat don't have the advantage of having parents that
promoted as a wonderful lifestyle, and even as acan give them the guidance and financial support they
woman's duty. But if you can't afford this so calledneed to help better themselves. The only way to
wonderful lifestyle it can be a hell. If you look aroundmake it easier for the children of the future is to make
you and see all the unwed mothers struggling to raisesure that they will have parents that can take care of
their children without any one to help them, you willthem. The government must let people that are thinking
agree with me.of having a child know what danger lies ahead if they
The people that are encouraging those that can'tcan't afford to have one. If that message is clear, no
afford to have children, to have them anyway, arewoman or man will dare try to have a child if they are
committing a great disservice to the parents by givingnot capable of giving that child what it needs.
them the wrong information. They must realize that itThe preachers of morality claim that they love children
cost money to raise a child, and if a woman is not inand would like all mothers to produce as many of
the financial position to have one, it is reckless andthem as possible, they say that: "The Lord Will
irresponsible behavior to bring a child into this world.Provide". This is not happening and they are giving out
There are many things that people will like to have like:false information. Ask any poor mother if anyone is
automobiles, expensive vacations, and new homes,providing for her in a hellish world, her answer will be:
they are nice to have if you can afford them. Children"NOBODY". Those that sincerely care for children don't
are also nice to have, but the same rule should apply.want them to suffer in a household with hardly any
There is nothing in this world that is free and thatfood to eat or clothing to wear. Honest and caring
includes the clean air, it is obtained by expensivepeople will warn potential parents of what lies ahead if
anti-pollution systems.they are not prepared for the responsibility of having a
It is of no use repeating what is happening to childrenchild.