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Parenting Book Review: (Misconceptions) Truth, Lies and the Unexpected on the Journey to Motherhood

Naomi Wolf's newest book, Misconceptions, the title, "The Patron Saint." It is
is a testament to her own experiences and obvious that Ms. Wolf is in awe of
prejudices about childbirth. Ms. Wolf Gaskin, yet wasn't converted by her to
shares her own culturally-learned fears better educate herself and choose a less
about childbirth but fails to recognize interventive childbirth. It is also
that this is in response to 100 years of apparent that Ms. Wolf did not read the
medical society propaganda. Although she original Spiritual Midwifery book. If
has access to research and studies she had, she would have learned that Ina
documenting the safety of homebirth and May wasn't exactly "a self-taught, lay
non-medical midwifery, she paints birth midwife" but that her earliest training
outside an institution as dangerous. She had come from an obstetrician (who also
chose to give birth with obstetricians in provided medication and instruments) and
high risk hospitals and had cesareans a local physician who provided friendly
both times. I think the book could have back-up for years. She also would have
been more aptly titled, learned that the Farm clinic included a
"(Misrepresentations) My Pain Phobia and physician.It is curious that Ms. Wolf is
Justification for My Cesareans."I heard intrigued by free-standing birth centers
about this book through discussions on and offers them up as a perfect choice
the internet which praised it for setting for women. She is somehow under the
the record straight about childbirth. impression that pain-relieving drugs are
After looking at the book myself, readily available for those who give
however, I have come to an entirely birth at these centers, yet her depiction
different conclusion. It is simply of Elizabeth Seton indicates a transport
another book, written to justify the to the hospital for those who wish an
unwarranted use of medical intervention epidural. How this is an improvement over
and sequelae, unnecessary cesareans, and one's own home is a mystery to me.
excuse bad maternity care decisions. Perhaps it is her fascination with
Instead of accurately depicting birthing institutions? and her phobia about
choices in America, Ms. Wolf used this pain?Complete Mother readers will find
book as a vehicle to promote her own her descriptions of breastfeeding
opinions and discredit traditional revolting: "become someone's addiction."
midwives, homebirth, full-time motherhood And quoting Sarah Hardy, "once nursing
and ecological breastfeeding.Ms. Wolf begins, bondage is a perfectly good
places great importance on the book "What description for the ensuing chain of
to Expect When You're Expecting", as events (and) lives on a mammary leash."
though this is some highly regarded How sad she didn't bother to go to a Le
research book or the childbirth Bible. Leche League meeting or meet someone who
Sadly this book is written to promote the was content breastfeeding. We can only
medical model of care and justify the guess that she probably was bottle fed,
many interventions foisted upon women who and lacking the nurturing of being
choose to have hospital births. She breastfed herself, is compensating by
carefully goes through the many routine portraying breastfeeding in a dim
hospital procedures and explains the many light.Her social programs which would
risks and few benefits of each, yet she improve the world basically abdicate
apparently did not believe her own parental responsibilities to the
research.Those who have fought for years government. She wants paid extended
to eradicate the meaningless term "lay maternity leave, tax deductions and
midwife" will immediately recognize Ms. benefits to relatives who come to help
Wolf's superficial understanding of birth the new mothers, on-site day care and
attendants. Her repeated use of this nurseries, lots of hospital support
term is a clear indicator of her lack of programs, hospital statistics disclosure,
research and knowledge of childbirth. I parentless playgrounds monitored by
half expected to see the terms "redskin" "young people" so "an active, thoughtful
or "nigger" pop up during discussion mother, father. (won't be) uncomfortable
about minority statistics.She writes as a at the playground." Basically she wants
fact, "homebirth is now as safe as the government to act as nanny so she can
hospital birth." Now as safe? It has get her work done. "Work" being something
always been at least as safe! An entire far more important than caring for her
book, The Five Standards by David children herself.Save yourself a few
Stewart, gives thousands of studies and hours of frustration wading through this
statistics which conclude that homebirth tripe. Instead, make a pot of raspberry
is safer than hospital birth.I took great leaf tea, give the older kids a fun
offense at her term, "Naturalists," project to do, put your feet up and put
(pages 182-186) to describe anyone who baby to breast and read the books she
would dare to promote or give birth ignored: The Five Standards, Under the
without high-technology. She explains Apple Tree, The American Way of Birth,
that this option "has been presented as Being Born, Birth at Home, Your Baby,
so rigid .with such extreme requirements Your Way, Special Delivery, Labor Pains,
of courage and faith. It was for that Silent Knife, Malpractice: How Doctors
reason that my husband and I would not Manipulate Women, Obstetric Myths Versus
consider it as an option." I wonder, Research Realities, Gentle Birth Choices
what research led her to this conclusion? and back-issues of The Compleat Mother
Judging from many comments which salt Magazine.Rebecca Waters is the book
her book, it would seem she is her own reviewer for The Compleat Mother Magazine
source of "factual" information.Anyone - Rebecca is also a contributor to
who promoted birth without drugs is Nursing Programs Online at and to
included in this Naturalist group and Go-Law-School at Rebecca is also a
portrayed as romanticizing the birthing mother of seven and the wife of an
event. Ina May Gaskin, however, is interesting dude.
somehow exempt from this group and given




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