Sex Is a Good Thing!

Orgasmic sex between consenting adults provideslike and work together to break through inhibitions. If
more benefits to humans than simple shared intimacy.your partner is too demanding or not open to such
It's also important in maintaining one's physical anddiscussion, I suggest you think about finding another
mental health.Numerous studies have shown thepartner.Teach our children. Studies show that children
beneficial effects of regular orgasms. Sex has beenwho grow up in households where the parents are
shown to be a great cardiovascular workout and itmore open about their bodies, as opposed to always
has been proven to relieve stress, thereby preventinghiding naked bodies behind closed doors, are actually
stress related disorders. Regular, satisfying sex maybetter adjusted as adults. Children who get
even help you live longer!On the other hand, sexualunconscious signals that the naked body is shameful or
frustration, in my opinion, is one of the greatestdisgusting end up with many more personal hang ups
problems humans face today.Now, I'm not talking aboutand inhibitions resulting in lower self esteem which only
a guy who's frustrated because his wife has been outmakes it harder to enjoy a healthy sex life.And don't
of town for a week. I'm talking about 40 year old guysbe afraid to talk to children about sex. It certainly
who have never had sex. I'm talking about womenencompasses far more than "where do babies come
who have been so scarred sexually, that they arefrom." Considering the impact sex, or lack of sex, has
hoping to get through the rest of their lives withouton one's life, it seems pretty silly to make everyone
ever having to have sex again. Where does this comefigure it all out for themselves by trial and error. Don't
from?Well, let's start by taking a look at history andshrink away from opportunities to talk to your children
religion. In many cultures, sex has been labelled "dirty."about what you've learned when it comes to choosing
And it's evident in the way we interact with each othera partner and maintaining a relationship. Even if you
every day that this perception has endured. One ofdon't feel very successful, they can benefit from your
the most obvious instances is the work "fuck."openness and experience.Guys, apply yourselves and
Apparently left over from even more repressive times,learn how to get laid. Don't say stupid stuff that only
the letters are intials describing a stockade offense,serves to increase resistance to sex. You want sex.
"For Unlawful Carnal Knowledge." Today, it hasDon't cut off your nose to spite your face by sending
become one of the most negative and widely usedmessages that what you really want is disgusting or
words in American English.Look at high school boysloathesome. And, don't let yourself get to a point
who already have distorted views of sex beforewhere you are so desperate for sex it's all you can
they've even participated in the act. We hear thingsthink about. It shows. We've all seen an unneutered
like, "eat me", "bite me", "suck this," "nice girls don't butdog that tries to hump the leg of everyone that comes
naughty girls do," and even as they get older, "she'salong; it's not attractive and it won't help you reach
fun, but she's not the kind of girl you want to marry!"your goal. Don't be afraid to take matters into your
How many good hearted and adventurous teenageown hands periodically to release excess tension so
girls have submitted to the wishes of their beau, only toyou can present the real you to prospective
be shamed, publicly ridiculed or abandoned?Then boyspartners.And remember, sex is a two way street. Men
become men. They get married to "nice girls" andwouldn't want sex all the time if they rarely ever had a
spend the rest of their lives wishing their wives werereal orgasm and it's the same for women. I know
more adventurous in bed. How many husbands hasslewomen who have never had an honest to goodness,
and harrangue their wives to give them what theyshuddering, mind blowing, toe curling orgasm! Why,
need (often without thinking of their wife's needs) untilbecause their partners were far more concerned
she is fed up and no longer interested at all? Ourabout their own pleasure instead of focusing on
whole concept of sex has become so twisted thatnuturing a long lasting sexual relationship. If all you care
many actually scorn its healthful and bonding effectsabout is yourself, then go and pay someone to take
because it has become so tangled up with pain.Andcare of your needs. Legal and regulated prostitution
don't forget the contribution of acute sexual frustrationcould go a long way to alleviating the overwhelming
to crime. Every sexual offense has its roots in sexualamount of sexual tension and resulting crime in our
pain and frustration or misconceptions about sex. Ifsociety.Imagine a world where there is no sexual
sex offenders were capable of having loving,tension. Hold on, I'm not talking about a world where
responsible, adult relationships, there would be no needpeople run around naked having sex everywhere with
for them to commit such crimes as rape andanyone who happens to come along. I'm talking about
molestation.What can we do?First, let's get it straighta world where people are happy and comfortable with
that sex is not "dirty." It is a perfectly normal biologicaltheir bodies and sex. Where people are not so
function and ignoring the urge won't make it go away.desperate for physical affection that they are actually
This is simply the way we are designed. If we trulymore attractive. A world where people feel safe and
have respect for some kind of all powerful Creator,willing to open themselves up to all the beneficial
then it's time we honor the fact that He/She/It madeeffects of sex. It's a tall order, I know. We've never
us the way we are. The Human body is a beautifulhad such a society, but it's worth it to try.Gwenneth
thing and it's wrong for us to attach such negativeMorgan is a 40ish, Pagan wife, mother and
connotations to any aspect of our natural selves inbusinesswoman who is totally fed up with the Old
favor of some Human conception of how we "should"Way. With the belief that humans have evolved to a
be.We must learn to embrace our sexuality. Justpoint where we can, as a group, embrace the Light,
because you might have had a bad experience in theshe has found the courage to openly share her views
past does not mean you're incapable of having a goodand encourage others to do the same. Visit her web
sexual experience. If your current sex life is not all thatsite to learn more.
you'd like it to be, talk to your partner about what you'd