| Orgasmic sex between consenting adults provides | | | | like and work together to break through inhibitions. If |
| more benefits to humans than simple shared intimacy. | | | | your partner is too demanding or not open to such |
| It's also important in maintaining one's physical and | | | | discussion, I suggest you think about finding another |
| mental health.Numerous studies have shown the | | | | partner.Teach our children. Studies show that children |
| beneficial effects of regular orgasms. Sex has been | | | | who grow up in households where the parents are |
| shown to be a great cardiovascular workout and it | | | | more open about their bodies, as opposed to always |
| has been proven to relieve stress, thereby preventing | | | | hiding naked bodies behind closed doors, are actually |
| stress related disorders. Regular, satisfying sex may | | | | better adjusted as adults. Children who get |
| even help you live longer!On the other hand, sexual | | | | unconscious signals that the naked body is shameful or |
| frustration, in my opinion, is one of the greatest | | | | disgusting end up with many more personal hang ups |
| problems humans face today.Now, I'm not talking about | | | | and inhibitions resulting in lower self esteem which only |
| a guy who's frustrated because his wife has been out | | | | makes it harder to enjoy a healthy sex life.And don't |
| of town for a week. I'm talking about 40 year old guys | | | | be afraid to talk to children about sex. It certainly |
| who have never had sex. I'm talking about women | | | | encompasses far more than "where do babies come |
| who have been so scarred sexually, that they are | | | | from." Considering the impact sex, or lack of sex, has |
| hoping to get through the rest of their lives without | | | | on one's life, it seems pretty silly to make everyone |
| ever having to have sex again. Where does this come | | | | figure it all out for themselves by trial and error. Don't |
| from?Well, let's start by taking a look at history and | | | | shrink away from opportunities to talk to your children |
| religion. In many cultures, sex has been labelled "dirty." | | | | about what you've learned when it comes to choosing |
| And it's evident in the way we interact with each other | | | | a partner and maintaining a relationship. Even if you |
| every day that this perception has endured. One of | | | | don't feel very successful, they can benefit from your |
| the most obvious instances is the work "fuck." | | | | openness and experience.Guys, apply yourselves and |
| Apparently left over from even more repressive times, | | | | learn how to get laid. Don't say stupid stuff that only |
| the letters are intials describing a stockade offense, | | | | serves to increase resistance to sex. You want sex. |
| "For Unlawful Carnal Knowledge." Today, it has | | | | Don't cut off your nose to spite your face by sending |
| become one of the most negative and widely used | | | | messages that what you really want is disgusting or |
| words in American English.Look at high school boys | | | | loathesome. And, don't let yourself get to a point |
| who already have distorted views of sex before | | | | where you are so desperate for sex it's all you can |
| they've even participated in the act. We hear things | | | | think about. It shows. We've all seen an unneutered |
| like, "eat me", "bite me", "suck this," "nice girls don't but | | | | dog that tries to hump the leg of everyone that comes |
| naughty girls do," and even as they get older, "she's | | | | along; it's not attractive and it won't help you reach |
| fun, but she's not the kind of girl you want to marry!" | | | | your goal. Don't be afraid to take matters into your |
| How many good hearted and adventurous teenage | | | | own hands periodically to release excess tension so |
| girls have submitted to the wishes of their beau, only to | | | | you can present the real you to prospective |
| be shamed, publicly ridiculed or abandoned?Then boys | | | | partners.And remember, sex is a two way street. Men |
| become men. They get married to "nice girls" and | | | | wouldn't want sex all the time if they rarely ever had a |
| spend the rest of their lives wishing their wives were | | | | real orgasm and it's the same for women. I know |
| more adventurous in bed. How many husbands hassle | | | | women who have never had an honest to goodness, |
| and harrangue their wives to give them what they | | | | shuddering, mind blowing, toe curling orgasm! Why, |
| need (often without thinking of their wife's needs) until | | | | because their partners were far more concerned |
| she is fed up and no longer interested at all? Our | | | | about their own pleasure instead of focusing on |
| whole concept of sex has become so twisted that | | | | nuturing a long lasting sexual relationship. If all you care |
| many actually scorn its healthful and bonding effects | | | | about is yourself, then go and pay someone to take |
| because it has become so tangled up with pain.And | | | | care of your needs. Legal and regulated prostitution |
| don't forget the contribution of acute sexual frustration | | | | could go a long way to alleviating the overwhelming |
| to crime. Every sexual offense has its roots in sexual | | | | amount of sexual tension and resulting crime in our |
| pain and frustration or misconceptions about sex. If | | | | society.Imagine a world where there is no sexual |
| sex offenders were capable of having loving, | | | | tension. Hold on, I'm not talking about a world where |
| responsible, adult relationships, there would be no need | | | | people run around naked having sex everywhere with |
| for them to commit such crimes as rape and | | | | anyone who happens to come along. I'm talking about |
| molestation.What can we do?First, let's get it straight | | | | a world where people are happy and comfortable with |
| that sex is not "dirty." It is a perfectly normal biological | | | | their bodies and sex. Where people are not so |
| function and ignoring the urge won't make it go away. | | | | desperate for physical affection that they are actually |
| This is simply the way we are designed. If we truly | | | | more attractive. A world where people feel safe and |
| have respect for some kind of all powerful Creator, | | | | willing to open themselves up to all the beneficial |
| then it's time we honor the fact that He/She/It made | | | | effects of sex. It's a tall order, I know. We've never |
| us the way we are. The Human body is a beautiful | | | | had such a society, but it's worth it to try.Gwenneth |
| thing and it's wrong for us to attach such negative | | | | Morgan is a 40ish, Pagan wife, mother and |
| connotations to any aspect of our natural selves in | | | | businesswoman who is totally fed up with the Old |
| favor of some Human conception of how we "should" | | | | Way. With the belief that humans have evolved to a |
| be.We must learn to embrace our sexuality. Just | | | | point where we can, as a group, embrace the Light, |
| because you might have had a bad experience in the | | | | she has found the courage to openly share her views |
| past does not mean you're incapable of having a good | | | | and encourage others to do the same. Visit her web |
| sexual experience. If your current sex life is not all that | | | | site to learn more. |
| you'd like it to be, talk to your partner about what you'd | | | | |