| Oftentimes a quiz can be an effective
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| | 21c. 57d. 113How many invalidations would
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| learning device. For that reason consider
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| | the average teenager therefore receive
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| the following questions and see what you
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| | during his or her teenage years (13-19)
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| learn. Hopefully a few questions will
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| | from the four sources mentioned in
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| inspire you in the direction of improved
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| | question 5? (Do the math)How many
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| management and leadership skill
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| | validations are you giving your young
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| development. The answers are at the
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| | employees each day to offset the
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| bottom of the column, but please resist
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| | invalidations they are receiving?Some
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| the temptation to peak until you have
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| | psychologists believe that one
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| given some serious thought about your
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| | effectively delivered validation can
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| answers.How many hours of TV do fathers
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| | offset up to ten invalidations. How many
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| between the ages of 25-34 watch each
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| | validations are you giving your family
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| week?a. 10 hoursb. 15 hoursc. 20 hoursd.
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| | members and your employees? How many
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| Almost 26 hoursHow many hours of TV does
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| | invalidations do you give or permit
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| the average non-working spouse watch each
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| | others to give in your presence?On
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| week?a. 20 hoursb. 25 hoursc. 30 hoursd.
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| | average, how much feedback (supportive
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| Almost 48 hoursHow many acts of violence
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| | and corrective) do you give each of your
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| will the average child have witnessed on
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| | employees each day?a. 1 minute per dayb.
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| TV by age 18?a. 25,000b. 50,000c.
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| | 10 minutes per weekc. 20 minutes per
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| 75,000d. 180,000How much time does the
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| | weekd. 30 minutes per weekANSWERS:
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| average father spend giving meaningful
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| | d. Almost 26 hours (This is amazing!)
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| feedback to his children?a. 1 minute per
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| | d. Almost 48 hours (This is even more
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| dayb. 10 minutes per weekc. 20 minutes
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| | amazing!)
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| per weekd. 30 minutes per weekHow much
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| | d. 200,000 (according to the American
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| time each day does the average married
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| | Academy of Pediatrics)
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| couple spend giving meaningful feedback
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| | a. 1 minute per day (This is sad, but it
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| to each other?a. Less than 4 minutesb.
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| | explains what is happening to many of our
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| About 15 minutesc. Approximately 20
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| | youth.)
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| minutesd. Slightly more than 30 minutesA
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| | a. Less than 4 minutes (This explains
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| psychological validation is a specific
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| | the 50% divorce rate.)
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| type of supportive feedback that sustains
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| | d. 113 (Unbelievable!)
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| a person in some way. An invalidation is
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| | 288,715 (Unimaginable!)
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| a critical or sarcastic comment that is
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| | An effective manager will take every
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| hurtful or demeaning. On average, how
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| | opportunity to deliver validations to all
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| many invalidations does the average
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| | employees, especially those who need them
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| teenager receive each day from: parents,
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| | most such as the younger population.
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| friends, teachers and siblings?a. 11b.
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