The Art of Playing - Tips for Parents

The Art of Playing - Tips for Parentsthem play even better.
We often think of games as mere amusement, when5. Notice and recognise when your child plays more
in fact, games can also be a highly effectivecarefully, slowly and deliberately. Reward them for
educational tool as well. John Dewey, the founder ofthinking first before acting.
modern educational theories, wrote in Democracy and6. Chat with them about what they think of the traffic
Education " experience has shown that when childrenlight method, do they feel they are playing better using
have a chance at physical activities which bring theirit?
natural impulses into play, going to school is a joy,7. Have a discussion about the benefits of thinking first
management is less of a burden and learning is easier"before acting. For example, ask your child how they
MindLab is a highly effective after school programmecould use the traffic light method if another child
that uses board games to teach children thinking,pushed them in the playground. "What would red light
problem solving and social skills. In MindLab there is abe?" (They could answer, "red means to stop and
three step process to teaching children though games:study the situation") "How could you do that?" (They
1. children learn a game 2. Children learn strategies tocould answer - "look at the other child, are they smiling
improve their game playing and thinking ability. 3. Theor frowning, gloating or crying, is there someone behind
children are encouraged to make connectionsthem who pushed them? Is there something on the
between the strategies they have just learnt andground that they could have tripped over?") "And what
experienced in the game, and situations in real life.is the orange light" (they could answer " Orange is to
As a parent, you can help your child develop theirlook at all my options - I could push them back, I could
thinking abilities at home through the art of playingask them why they pushed me, I could tell them to not
games. Here are some ideas to help:do that again, I could get the teacher, I could run away
1. Teach your child noughts and crosses, or evenetc.") Encourage your child to understand that with
better, four in a row (readily available at most toymore information they have more options and the
stores)choice they take will be a better one (just like in the
2. Play the game together, and after round or two askgame). By slowing down and thinking first, they have
your child if they want to learn a way to play evenlearnt that they will be smarter, in game playing and in
betterlife!
3. Teach your child the traffic light method:a. Red -Happy playing!
means stop and pay attention to your surroundings -For more information or photos please contact:
really look at the game and study what may beSuri at MindLab on 01628 509021, or
happening, to you and your opponentb. Orange - getNote to Editors:
ready to go - look at every one of your options andThe positive impact of MindLab on children's
decide which is the best move to take. For example, indevelopment is supported by prestigious research
the game Connect Four, you can encourage your childwhich shows that children who follow a MindLab
to examine what would happen if they dropped theircurriculum demonstrate a substantial and lasting
piece in each of the columns. Encourage your child toimprovement in strategic reasoning and problem
choose the best move after studying each individualsolving skills as well as standardised maths and verbal
column or option.c. Green - check your plan then go -reasoning tests. Over 1,000,000 students in 15 countries
encourage your child to take one last look to makeinternationally have benefited from the MindLab
sure they are making the best move, then take theirprogramme. MindLab is a "green field" business
move.opportunity both in the UK, (currently there are 10
4. Now play the game with your child and encouragefranchisees) and across Europe.
them try out the traffic light method to see if it helps