Video Games and Your Child: Tips For Parents

Quite often, parents will take a negative attitude3) Keep the Games Public
toward video games without taking the time to informDon't let your kids play their video games in their
themselves of the games their children are playing, orbedrooms! Instead, set up the game system in a public
even bothering to learn what video games ratingsroom. This lets you monitor their playing time, ensuring
actually mean. Here are a few tips to help you staythey don't spend all day in front of a screen, while also
game-savvy when it comes to your child and videoallowing you to easily get involved in the game and
games:make sure the content is appropriate. Don't hover, but
1) Talk to Your Kidskeep an eye on things!
If you don't understand the games your kids are4) Monitor Playing Time
playing, don't rag on their self-esteem by telling them it'sVideo games have become such an integral part of
stupid and a waste of time: try sitting down whilechildren's social lives that banning video games might
they're playing and ask them what they like about theactually hurt your child's potential friendships. Many
game, and who their favorite characters are. They'll begames have also been shown to stimulate imagination
more likely to respect your serious opinions on certainand help problem-solving skills, which can be highly
games if you show a respect for the things theybeneficial in the long run! Regardless of what your child
enjoy.is playing, however, you should set a daily time limit to
2) Learn the Ratingsensure a healthy balance of activities within the home.
Instead of waiting for your child to bring home a gameFollowing these simple, common-sense tips will not only
rated 18+ and yelling at her to get rid of it, learn whathelp you as a parent to become more involved in your
the video game rating system is beforehand andchild's life, but he'll also have a greater sense of
discuss it with your child. Let her know that it isn'trespect for you and your opinions. And if you can bring
appropriate for a 12-year-old to play a game made foryourself to try playing, it's a great way to spend some
adults. By having this discussion ahead of time, you'llbonding time together! Educating yourself as a parent
set the boundaries and avoid a screaming matchon video games is important so you can be the parent
down the road.your child needs.