| We all know that not all parents are created | | | | What kind of parent do I want to be? What |
| equal. Some are good parents and some are bad | | | | kind of a leader do I want to be for my |
| parents. But good and bad parenting are | | | | child? Do I want he or she to go through some |
| results of both conscious and unconscious | | | | of the unpleasant circumstances I was born |
| choices. Why so? That's because good parents | | | | into? If I am my child, what kind of family |
| made it their choice to learn beneficial ways | | | | do I want to be born into? With these |
| and methods in parenting. Perhaps they have a | | | | questions, it will bring light to what sort |
| good upbringing as well. However, does that | | | | of a parent you desire to become. |
| mean bad parents are bad by their own choice? | | | | |
| Nothing can be further from the truth. Bad | | | | After knowing what you want, it is still |
| parents do also feel that they can do better | | | | impossible to break the mirror as you do not |
| and often times, they too want to be loved | | | | know how to do it. this is the time you |
| and adored by their children. Often times, | | | | consult your 6 best friends on earth. Namely: |
| their inability to make the transition in | | | | Why, Who, How, What, When and Where. |
| becoming a better parent is because they feel | | | | |
| overwhelmed by their personal situations. | | | | For example, if your situation is your own |
| | | | bad temper, then ask the following questions: |
| One of the major things that causes bad | | | | |
| parenting is bad parenting. I know that | | | | 1) Why do I want to change and eliminate my |
| sounds a bit odd but read carefully. Imagine | | | | bad temper? |
| a child growing up in a poorly managed | | | | |
| family. I don't mean poor as in destitute but | | | | 2) Who do I seek help from to deal with my |
| as in poor methods of parenting. Their | | | | temper problems? |
| children will learn to become the parents | | | | |
| they so despise. When they are young, they | | | | 3) How can I get the most benefit from the |
| were already being programmed to become the | | | | people I seek help from? |
| parents they so dislike. Therefore, when they | | | | |
| grow up, they too become the clone of their | | | | 4) What techniques should I apply to make |
| own parents. A total MIRROR IMAGE. Which is | | | | myself calm down during a temper? |
| why, in some cases, breaking that mirror is | | | | |
| simply a must. | | | | 5) When to apply the best technique for |
| | | | temper control for the best results? |
| Now how do you do that? Well, here are ways | | | | |
| to go about breaking that mirror. This is | | | | 6) Where can I find more resources related to |
| best done before marriage and before deciding | | | | my problem? |
| to have children. Always ask yourself first. | | | | |